The Hidden Cost of People-Pleasing for Christians
As Christians, we are taught to be giving, kind, loving, and supportive.
But what happens when your desire to help others turns into constant overextending, exhaustion, or resentment?
People-pleasing can quietly become a heavy burden.
1. People-pleasing is often rooted in fear, not love.
Fear of disappointing others.
Fear of appearing selfish.
Fear of being judged.
2. Serving others doesn’t mean sacrificing yourself.
Healthy boundaries allow you to give freely without losing yourself.
3. You were never meant to carry everyone’s emotional load.
Even Jesus rested.
Even Jesus stepped away.
Even Jesus said “no.”
If you’re stuck in a cycle of over-giving, chances are your emotional cup is running low.
Ready to reclaim your voice and emotional space?
